• @hawkear thats what i have… seen very nice photos from it. just dont waste $ on the stock lens. #
• @ichange the new site looks great! #
• #oneword code #

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• I’m freaking amazing that delicious is still as lame as when it launched. I need visualizations. Min just multi col layout by tag. #

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• @lovelifemusic waiting sux. at least we have handy electronics to entertain us! #
• @leolaporte I think I’ve been inspired #
• uh oh! http://twurl.nl/m5oj40 #md5 #
• @shortyawards I nominate @ichange for a Shorty Award in #health because they rule! #

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• @stevendelman nice, I’ve been playing too much myself. my gamertag is same as twitter name. #
• finally back to work! #
• Looking for NYE plans/party #
• looking forward to a kick ass new year to come #

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• sad to see the fam leave tmw :-[ #
• anyone in orange county print stickers or other things? #
• @blonde20 put my old crappy site up since i haven’t updated it yet. working on that now. http://jeffpelton.com #
• back to work #
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Getting back into writing and getting caught up on what I’ve missed/not read, I jumped over to Melissa Gira’s website. She been busy writing and producing the wonderful things she so amazingly good at discussing. I was actually surprised to find an article of hers on The Frisky. I really like the Frisky, the content is interesting and I love the design and functionality. I’ve viewed it as conservative when it comes to sex - you know, the vanilla/mainstream side. And for the most point it is. But they have the wonderful Gira blogging. For give me Melissa for being so Web 1.0 on this.

It’s funny, I ended my blog posts in October talking about a post that Gira wrote, and I start with one.

Melissa: You made me smile at this, as I read, I had flashes of the ex-boyfriends I’ve had (damn the trail is long) who stalk my twitter and my Facebook for updates - to the point you ban them off Facebook.

Lesson: Twitterstalking and using social media to follow your ex-girlfriends, ex-boyfriends, clients, ex-pornstar you were involved with is not healthy. It’s time to move on. Here is a great article on HOW.

The Frisky: When Blogs Cry - How To Break Up Online

Cancel, unsubscribe, unfollow. Sort out how you want to react to the breakup only after you’ve canceled the relationship, unsubscribed from her Tumblr, or blocked him from Twitter. To undo a relationship that made it online in any form—whether you’ve got photos together all over MySpace or earned your own tag on Gawker—requires investing as much shared exposure as you put in. Make a cold calculation: in my case, that meant reframing a year-and-a-half long affair, across half a dozen online networks, and doing it in just a few days.  This condenses everything: how much it hurts, how fast you have to react.  You had weeks or months to attach to one another’s blogs, profiles, and endearingly staged snapshots.  Now you have to delete or address it all, all at once.

We live in public. Those of us who document even a small part of our lives online hit that moment when we realize our audience isn’t just our friends: they’re more like fans. Any girl whose kept a LiveJournal or posted photos of her shoes to it has felt this. In talking about your breakup, you’re addressing those “friends,” not your ex—and if your ex has an online footprint equal to or greater than yours?  Take charge of your own reputation by telling your story—even if that’s to say you’re going to keep it discreet.

Focus, and cause no collateral damage. The heart’s built-in amnesia – time healing all wounds – is not going to guide your sense of judgment in an online breakup. What will give you resilience later is to tell only your own side now, even if that self-imposed silence aches. The one thing I’d take back from my breakup-blogging is a reference to the sex life of someone close to my ex. But addressing the woman who named me in her own screeds against my ex, after those became the subject of comment for our mutual friends? That not only felt fair, but necessary.  In the case of involving those outside the breakup: only expose what you absolutely need to, and only about those equally desperate for the attention.

A pre-emptive makeup? The strange thing is, it really wasn’t hard to read what strangers—who had no interest in my relationship when it was going well—had to say when I was torching it in their RSS reader. It was easy, and easy to obsess on having the crowd vet “what it all meant.” By the time my ex and I reconciled – and screwed, and cried – the worst things we could’ve said to one another had already been said, in front of an audience. Their reblogged attention was gratifying just long enough for us to figure out how little we needed them to make sense of our relationship ourselves.

Wow - I’ve logged into my facebook, twitter(s) -  siden ote: yeap, I got two, I am telling you, you gotta squat on the name properties. They will be valuable in the next year - myspace and finally my blog. I’ve been quiet for a few month now. I’ve noticed that my page rank went up and my Alexa when up too. Guess you lose the link love when you stop updating.

Where have I been? That is the question I’ve been answering all day. Well, I have been busy. I take my own advice. I take breaks when I get burnt out or just get busy. So my humblest apologies to those that are upset or feel put off - but I am sure you understand that “space” you need when you just need to breathe.

So what you up to? What am I up to. Well, I am going to start writing again. I have some interesting things to say and will do my best to write weekly or at least every 10 days. If anyone is floating around AVN, you MIGHT see me.

So give me a few, and I get back to the lucious blogging, and only blogging. But know now, it’s gonna change. I’ve been writing for the great In My Bed Magazine and a few others and that content is coming. You will get the marketing morsels, but in limited quantity. But I promise what you get will be good.

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